Song Joong Ki officially announced the second child! I finally understand why he divorced Song Hye Kyo. …

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* Author: Jiang Huo Firefly, Source: Dong Tan.

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Recently, there is another good news from the entertainment circle-

According to media reports, Song Joong Ki, who was promoted to father in June last year, welcomed the crystallization of love again.

At present, his current wife (Katie) is focusing on prenatal education and health care.

On July 8, Song Joong Ki brokerage company also confirmed to the outside world:

"Song Joong Ki and his wife are welcoming Erbao, but they can’t confirm the birth time and gender of the child, because this is a private issue."

In retrospect, since January 30, 2023, the two married and gave birth to their first child.

In just one and a half years, their newborn has turned one year old.

Even more surprising, less than two years after their new marriage, Song Joong Ki and his wife are ready to give birth to a second child again.

This shows how much Song Joong Ki attaches to his family and his two children. …

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Since becoming a father, Song Joong Ki always seems to enjoy it.

Just last month, he was bumped into shopping and strolling his baby many times, sometimes with his wife.

Song Joong Ki pushed the stroller, acting like a "daddy", while his wife followed, and their happiness almost overflowed the screen.

In addition, Song Joong Ki also frequently mentioned his son in the interview, proudly saying:

"The child is very similar to me!"

Seeing this, fans are also deeply touched.

From a "national male god" to a "super daddy", this change makes people see another side of Song Joong Ki.

It turns out that he has been expressing his persistence in love and family in his own way.

Anyway, I wish the new family in Song Joong Ki, always full of laughter and warmth …

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The news that Song Joong Ki is happy to have a second child is also discussed by the outside world.

Among them, the most talked about by netizens is the marriage between Song Joong Ki and his ex-wife Song Hye Kyo.

As we all know, Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo met through the TV series Descendants of the Sun and got married in December 2017.

At that time, their wedding was extremely grand.

Unfortunately, this marriage only lasted for one year and eight months and then ended hastily.

Some netizens speculated that contacting Song Joong Ki and his ex-wife Song Hye Kyo had no children, and now his current wife. "Give birth to 2 babies in 2 years.”。

Maybe,The reason why the two divorced at the beginning was that they had differences on the issue of "having children".

Some people say that Song Hye Kyo is "unwilling to have children" and wants to focus on his career, and his relationship with his parents-in-law is not well handled.

And Song Joong Ki wanted to have children very much, so they had a lot of conflicts until their marriage broke down completely.

Song Hye Kyo is four years older than Song Joong Ki. When they divorced, Song Hye Kyo was 38 years old.

Female stars of this age want to have children, not only have to face a huge career crisis, but also the risks in production can not be underestimated.

Therefore, it can be said that it is an inevitable ending for the two to part ways …

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Speaking of which,Song Joong Ki has repeatedly said in interviews that starting a family and having children are his biggest goals in life.

But this is the reality. No matter how you choose, you have regrets in life.

This failed marriage has dealt a great blow to both sides.

After the divorce, Song Hye Kyo stopped all the work in the show business.

For a long time, she chose to travel and relax to relieve her inner pain.

Song Joong Ki, on the other hand, not only continued to work hard in his career, but also met his current wife under the introduction of his friends, and finally went to the palace of marriage.

For their experience, there may be many heartbroken fans who say,I don’t believe in love anymore.

But in fact, it is normal for marriage to be on and off.

Especially the marriage between stars, there are many unknown inside stories.

Fortunately, when their marriage broke up, Song Hye Kyo and Song Joong Ki never complained about each other in public.

For them,No matter what the outcome is, as long as both sides have loved each other, it is not disappointing each other …

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Perhaps many people still believe that women must have children in order to be perfect in life.

But,Who can really define "perfection"?

Take this case-

There is nothing wrong with Song Hye Kyo’s choice of divorce;

And Song Joong Ki in a wife, even a second child, also understandable.

After all, getting married and having children are all personal freedoms and rights.

Marriage is not happy because of having children, but the result of joint efforts of husband and wife.

It is a long process for a mother to be pregnant in October.

After countless sleepless nights, I finally welcomed the arrival of a new life.

After having children, parents forget their past life and become their children’s 24-hour personal bodyguards.

Moreover, parents will be responsible for their children all their lives, and there is no freedom of "single" and "chic" anymore.

Therefore,Before making this decision, we must be cautious …

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Unmarried infertility is not terrible, what is terrible is to promote marriage and give birth.

Some people, ostensibly in the name of love and care, are actually a kind of "parental" control, a kind of arrogance and hegemony in their bones.

This is a manifestation of lack of cultural literacy;

It is also the culprit of creating stress and spreading anxiety;

It is also an interference and disrespect for the freedom of marriage and childbearing of others.

The book "Golden Age" once said:

"I can’t decide life and death, but I can decide how to love and live."

In a civilized era, there should be such tolerance, and we must not be discriminated against because of a certain person or a certain choice …

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Of course, we can also understand those views that "support" having children.

But in fact, there is no right or wrong to have children.

Right or wrong, only depends on the position.

Many positions are due to different ages,Caused by different living environments.

For example,In the 1960s and 1970s.Parents, they lack material conditions and a sense of security.

Only children are the dawn of life.

These parents dream of their children getting married and starting a career, dreaming of "have children and grandchildren in the household"Old age.

Because their parents and grandparents came like this.

Therefore, the birth has been non-stop.

Heard such a sentence:

"The ultimate meaning of life is to take responsibility, find answers to difficult problems, and complete the tasks set by life for everyone."

For families with successful careers and married children, people often describe them as "winners in life".

But this does not mean that life without marriage is incomplete.

Or, when people around you are saying, "Marry someone early" and "Have a lovely baby early".

How should a single person face this kind of "goodwill"?

Nowadays, there are many teenage stars who stand up and speak out and support each other spontaneously.

In the matter of getting married and having children, you can choose to be single all the time;

In the face of other people’s doubts, you can also fight back with great confidence and continue to be yourself.

In fact,The best understanding of fertility is "participating in the growth of a life".

Don’t have to fight for the facade for parents; There is no need to carry on the family line; Not to mention helping parents support the elderly.

Parenting is parenting.

As Mr. Hu Shi said:

"Raising you is not kindness, but biological instinct caused by blood;"

"So, since I have not been kind to you, you don’t need to repay me;"

"On the contrary, I want to thank you, because with your participation, my life is more complete."

The process of childbearing is a process in which children and parents nourish each other.

Having children can teach us what "love" is by loving a life deeply.

But if you don’t have children, you don’t have to feel indebted.

"Like"+"Looking", the ultimate truth of getting along with others is to allow others to be others and allow themselves to be themselves. …

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